So you paid $150 for 10.2 and hate the brushed aluminum look that apple seams to be putting everywhere??? Well first off Tell Apple but then so you don't have to suffer too long fix it your self (as much as you can...) You will need developer tools to do this!

• iChat
  Display package contents : Open Contents->Resources->English.lproj->PeopleList.nib : Select ugly window (not anything on the window just the window it self) get info and uncheck the Textured window box.
  The actual chats are still the old (or I guess new) way but they are coded in and we can't fix that.
• Address Book
  Display package contents : Open Contents->Resources->English.lproj->ABWindow.nib : Select ugly window (not anything on the window just the window it self) get info and uncheck the Textured window box.
  Everything else is Aqua any way so be happy now.
• Calculator
  Display package contents : Open Contents->Resources->English.lproj->Calculator.nib : Select ugly window (not anything on the window just the window it self) get info and uncheck the Textured window box.
  Everything else is Aqua any way so be happy now.
• Safari
  Display package contents : Open Contents->Resources->English.lproj->Browser.nib : Select ugly window (not anything on the window just the window it self) get info and uncheck the Textured window box.
  Display package contents : Open Contents->Resources->English.lproj->Downloads.nib : Select ugly window (not anything on the window just the window it self) get info and uncheck the Textured window box.

If this breaks stuff it's not my fault... Do this at your own risk... If you break stuff and complain all I will do is laught at you.